NGQELENI- Xhantilomzi Qotoyi’s book ‘How to Keep a Man’ made waves, selling out its initial print run in just 24 hours after its release on 14 August 2025.
This remarkable feat is a testament to the book’s impact on readers, exploring relationship dynamics and bridging the gap between men and women. Notable figures like singer Mawhoo have snatched up copies, praising Qotoyi’s humorous and satirical approach to conveying relationship truths.
The book emphasizes that men crave respect, gentleness and understanding alongside love.
In an exclusive interview with Eastern Cape Daily News Qotoyi had this to say, “My book is targeting mostly specifically women, I want them to know they’re ‘the prize’ in relationships and that there is no shame in fighting for what they want and makes them happy.”
The book’s success highlights a growing interest in discussions about relationships and gender dynamics, resonating with many women.
Qotoyi’s approach challenges societal norms, offering a fresh perspective on relationships. “As there has been congratulations and as well as criticisms I want to say thank you to the people who bought my book and supports me,” Qotoyi expressed gratitude.
The book’s sell-out success showcases Qotoyi’s ability to spark meaningful conversations about relationships and gender dynamics, making ‘How to Keep a Man‘ a catalyst for change.
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